This entry comes at a very weird juncture of my life. Well to begin with, staying in a PG, all alone, away from family and friends, away from the known faces and places, I thought HELP would be always on the way. But human beings are so damn weird, I must admit. It seems strange how people react when others ask for help, but when they themselves are in need of Help, they act all selfish and only care for themselves. That is exactly what happened with me and I would like to narrate a bit of it today, just wanted to share it.
To being with, in Bangalore, I have joined this company which seems nice, a little or should I add a lot different that what my previous company was. And so I got a chance to get to know some new people, some new faces, I made friends with and some who will always remain a colleague. Not naming anyone, I would once again give a nickname for this one particular person - DANDRUFF. No matter how much you try and shu her away, she will come back. I remember naming the same thing to a girl back in college, but I guess you meet such creeps every now and then.
So what exactly happened, this Dandruff is friendly the very first day. She will smile and speak her mind out, but then if you dare speak with anyone else, she will be all irritated and cranky. She has a weird habit of speaking to herself when people are around her. So this day, she says that others find her scary and stuff, all stupid assumptions she has in her petty mind. So i tried to help her and let her know that we have no such hard feelings for her and instead she came onto me and started shouting at me as if I am the one who has filled everyone's head with such thoughts. I got so very pissed off. It was never my intention to hurt her or something, rather all I tried doing was help her to understand others in a much better way. But my luck, I tried helping and instead I got the heat.
Basically what I learnt from such an experience is that help only your self and no one else. Help thyself and look for none.
A lesson learnt is anyday better than a lesson forgotten
To being with, in Bangalore, I have joined this company which seems nice, a little or should I add a lot different that what my previous company was. And so I got a chance to get to know some new people, some new faces, I made friends with and some who will always remain a colleague. Not naming anyone, I would once again give a nickname for this one particular person - DANDRUFF. No matter how much you try and shu her away, she will come back. I remember naming the same thing to a girl back in college, but I guess you meet such creeps every now and then.
So what exactly happened, this Dandruff is friendly the very first day. She will smile and speak her mind out, but then if you dare speak with anyone else, she will be all irritated and cranky. She has a weird habit of speaking to herself when people are around her. So this day, she says that others find her scary and stuff, all stupid assumptions she has in her petty mind. So i tried to help her and let her know that we have no such hard feelings for her and instead she came onto me and started shouting at me as if I am the one who has filled everyone's head with such thoughts. I got so very pissed off. It was never my intention to hurt her or something, rather all I tried doing was help her to understand others in a much better way. But my luck, I tried helping and instead I got the heat.
Basically what I learnt from such an experience is that help only your self and no one else. Help thyself and look for none.
A lesson learnt is anyday better than a lesson forgotten
